FETAL MIND'S DIARY

HELPING THE DISABLED

2011-02-16T12:24:00.004+05:00

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessing be upon His Messenger.

Being mentally and physically healthy is the greatest gift that we should be thankful for. At the same time, being it mentally or physically ill is a test from Allah to mankind. Therefore, one has to be patient, grateful, and thankful to Allah for whatever He gives. In Qur’an it’s mentioned*{Only the patient will be paid back their reward in full without measure...}* (Az-Zumar 39:10)

Every human being has given their rights in this life. No matter if he/ she are abled or disabled. As Muslims first we should refer to the perfect guidance to the mankind the glorious Qur’an and the sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad peace and blessing be upon him.

When we look into Qur’an, these some of the verses even though the direct terms are not being used its states the same.

*{O mankind! We created you from a single pair of a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that ye may know each other (not that ye may despise each other).}* (Al-Hujurat 49:3)

*{And cooperate with one another towards righteousness and piety and do not cooperate towards sinfulness and aggression.}* (Al-Ma'idah 5:2)
*{Whoever saved a life, it shall be as if he had saved the life of all mankind.}* (Al-Ma'idah 5:2)

When we look into Hadheeth’s of the Prophet (PBUH)

"Whoever meets the needs of his brother, Allah will meet his needs."

"Show mercy to those on earth, and God will show mercy to you."

The Prophet has emphatically said: "None of you is a true believer until you wish for your brother what you wish for yourself."

"Charity is prescribed for every person every day the sun rises."

"if one removes a hardship of a Muslim in this life, Allah will relieve a hardship from him on the Day of Judgment."

From these few but meaningful verses of Qur’an and saying of our beloved Prophet (PBUH) we know how important it is for us to establish the rights of the Disabled and less fortune people.

Indeed as Muslims it is obligatory for us to provide care and protection to the disabled people.

We have no right to humiliate, discriminate or reject them from the society.

We have no right to isolate them from the community unless if such a treatment is required for them to make them recover. We have to serve them equally in the society but with extra care.

It is not only the duty of few people in the society or the family to look after them or provide guidance and protection to them. It is the responsibility of the whole community. It is a consensus among scholars that the whole community will be considered sinful if these people are neglected and abandoned or humiliated. Can u live with that?

May Allah bless u all.
Fi Amanillah

Useful Links

2010-10-24T11:50:00.003+05:00

www.kalamullah.com

www.islamawareness.net

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VOLUNTEER

2010-02-12T14:29:00.007+05:00

Helping the disabled. It is the duty of the whole society to establish schools for those persons and secure them due care so that they become good members of the society and that they benefit themselves and their families. In 1998 a Non-governmental organization named CARE SOCIETY was formed to promote the rights of the disabled in Maldives. It is duty of we Muslims to shoulder the responsibility of showing the utmost care to those people, for, according to the teachings of our religion, those persons are sources of Divine mercy and blessings being showered on us now and then. They are the weak for whose sake we are given sustenance and made victorious. In his Hadith, our Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: “You are given sustenance and victory for the virtue of those who are weak amongst you.” We, should show mercy and care to the disabled out of both human and religious motives. In Islam, we are commanded to show mercy to everything in this world. In the Hadith: “Show mercy to those on earth so that He Who is in the heavens (i.e. Allah) bestow mercy to you.”

So my dear friends let us be someone who is always grateful to volunteer. Help the CARE SOCIETY to make a difference in lives of those people in need of care. There are many ways you may contribute the CARE SOCIETY.

If you are interested please contact 3316072, 3325547 or you may visit the web site www.caresociety.org.mv for more information.

Silence

2009-08-16T09:55:00.002+05:00

I have been wounded

I could feel the pain inside

There’s no blood clotted

There’s no sign…

I feel pain…

I have been having the feeling of emptiness

I feel incomplete…

I have been surrounded with loneliness

I could feel the guilt…

Can’t stop thinking

Can’t point out the cause

Mind keeps searching…

Still there’s no answer found

Till the last conversation everything was good

Still something had gone wrong overnight

What might go wrong…

I feel the pain…

It’s how I am…

Silence from a friend is hard to bear

It’s worse than a deep wound

Especially if it is from someone who I really care

My heart can’t rest till the reason is being found

Whatever the reason don’t hesitate to share

No matter how silly this may sound

Don’t hide anything because of fear

This will finally end up in tears

Your silence is hard to bear

Move on

2009-03-13T10:50:00.005+05:00

Life is cruel. What you have to understand is, life is full of choices. It’s about asking, questioning and even though you cannot understand everything.

Nowadays you cannot understand. Let me ask you, do you really want to see across the line or not...

We always find things we like and things we love, but nothing stays as the same. Everything starts as everything actually ends.

You feel lonely and you will miss him. You think you can’t get over it. But why do we always want to explore… Why do we love things over the other… Just like you liked a song so much, but when you hear something nicer. You will turn to it. You will slowly start to ignore and forget about the old one. Trust me this will happen.

Past is past… It’s like the surf from a boat. Even though you look at it. It finally vanishes…

He’s not the only one… Not the only person who could love you. Understand and believe, everything has it’s time and reason. We just can’t understand it…

MIstakes

2009-01-24T20:21:00.005+05:00

Why hesitate for being careful.

Is it that you think it’s awful.

Is it that you think you have got a handful…

Or is it you think you are always right.

Are you willing to be in a fight…

Fight for something which isn’t right.

Why don’t accept what is yours.

Asking for forgiveness there’s nothing to lose.

To see your loved ones in pain, it hurts.

Especially when you realize the mistake was yours.

People make mistakes a lot. The reason we are called as humans is that we make mistakes. Nobody is perfect. We might be good at things, but not at all of them. It doesn’t make our self a looser.

We can’t do everything, the perfect way, but we could try. Trying is the way to be.

Sometimes the mistakes we do in our life could affect a lot. So we should be really careful with it. A simple word which comes out from us could change everything. Like a nuclear bomb. The effects could last forever.

The question is, “What if we made a mistake?”…… I know after saying something wrong or doing something, we can’t simply just press Ctrl+Z and undo everything. Like we use to do it in computers. I wish we could…… But it’s not possible.

Everything cannot be changed like it was before. Yes, but we could try to make things right.

The thing is when we realize that we had made a mistake, it will be too late. Most of the time we realize someone wake you up.

It might be cause, when we did what we did. We might think that was the best way to do that. And just simply did it without knowing the consequences.

We should also believe that everyone doesn’t do everything on purpose. There are people who do things on purpose too. If someone did something bad to you and later if she/he realized that she/he did something wrong. And ask for forgiveness.

We should forgive him/her. Even though they couldn’t make things as it was before.

The important this is realizing and accepting the mistake.

There are people who don’t want accept the mistakes done by them. They think that they are always right and perfect. But they are wrong. Cause no one’s perfect.

So dear friends. Try to avoid mistakes as much as you could. Also keep forgiveness as a habit. There’s nothing to lose by forgiving…

May God bless you all…………

Thoughts 6

2009-01-17T14:51:00.005+05:00

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Even though friendship is based on these. There are people who pretend to be a friend. I mean some people didn’t understand the true meaning of friendship. Sometimes when we treat or be nice to someone they get the wrong picture out of it. They think we are only nice to them because we want him/her. This is the reason why I say they don’t understand the true meaning of friendship.

Also there are people who take the advantage of friendship. When we are nice to them, they also pretend to be nice. Actually that particular person doesn’t need our friendship. Some people pretend to be a friend, because they want to ruin our life. They always try to create misunderstandment. They will try everything they could do to create it. By taking small things and make an issue out of it.

Choosing a friend. While choosing a friend you should make sure that you choose the right person. Someone trustable and reliable. As people say “We cannot judge a book from its cover.” It’s true.

Never hide your feelings to your friends. If you hide your feelings their won’t be anyone else to guide you away. If he/she is a true friend he/ she will be beside you to help and to comfort you.

Sometimes your friends might yell at you or be mad at you, when u do something wrong. It doesn’t mean that they really don’t care for you. It’s because they love you. It’s their love, which makes them to yell at you when you do something wrong. A true friend never wants his/her friend to do something wrong. Your friend shouts at you because they are your friend. If they wasn’t your friend. They will never be able to get mad at you. So we should accept it even though we cannot understand everything which happens in our life. The life is about asking and questioning.

  Always follow your heart. Share your feelings with others. Sharing gives reliefs to every problem. Even though it’s difficult to solve. There’s nothing we cannot do, if we are together. The power of friendship is greatest of all. 

 End of thoughts. Hope u guys liked it...

Thoughts 5

2009-01-13T20:45:00.004+05:00

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Sacrifice! In some circumstances we have to make sacrifices for our love. To sacrifice sometimes we have to leave our love. We leave him/her for their own good. Letting go doesn’t mean you don’t love. Letting go means you love that person more. It’s because you always want that person’s happiness.

Sometimes loving someone doesn’t mean to make him/her yours. Everything we that love can’t always be ours. It might be someone else’s. I love being with my friends and I love them. It doesn’t mean that I should make them mine.

We should accept that the others also have their right to choose. They should be given the chance to decide what they want. Also we are not the only people who could love or care. Others also should live their life.

Friendship! When we talk about friendship. It’s also a relationship same as love. It’s built up on trust, sharing and caring. Friends are the most precious gift of all. They are the people who guide us away from the dark. They are the people who give their shoulders for you in happiness and sadness. Whenever you feel like alone you can always rely on true friends. They will always be beside you to help.

A true friend will always be pleased to help you. She/he will never say “No!” if you are doing something right. They will always think of the happiness of both. I say the beauty and the happiness of life is how happy others (Friends) are because of you. Always be someone who others could count on. To be continued...

Thoughts 4

2009-01-09T07:05:00.005+05:00

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Always follow your heart. Think twice before you step forward. Don’t follow others heart. It’s not that others can’t give you good advice. You have to accept it, if your heart does. Don’t do something in the sake of doing it, because someone told you to do so.

Someday you will get your love. If your love is true for that person. Sometimes you might not get. As I told you before everything has a reason for it. We have to accept it. It might be for your or their own good.

Even though you cannot get the one you love. Don’t lose faith. Because you could get someone else. Someone even better than him/her. Some people get bored of life when they lose their loved ones. But we should go on with our life. Never give up. Always try. God is with the people who try.

Some people give advices to make people who had faced these situations. In order to make them relief, to make them happy or it might the way of their belief. They say “Love the person who loves you. Not the person whom you love.” I say this is the biggest mistakes they make in their life.

As I told you before how can we be with someone who we don’t love? Sometimes this might work out after knowing each other. Most of the times it doesn’t. Because love is based on relationship between both sides. Same as if want to give a tension to a rope. And we pull from one end, not from both ends. There want be a tension produced. Tension will be produced if we pull from both ends. So I say being with someone you don’t love is not the solution for your problem. Because you are hurting him/her without knowing. When they find out you don’t actually love, he/she will be badly hurt. I would say “Love the person who loves you and that person should be someone who you love.” To be continued...

Thoughts 3

2009-01-03T20:28:00.002+05:00

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True love. It’s a very special relationship. It’s a relationship built upon trust, sharing and caring. It’s a relationship built when we know each other well. And start to share our feelings. We cannot force anyone to love a person. True love is born in our souls. Bond of true love is hard to break. Bonds of love can only be broken when the bonds of trust is broken. When someone losses trust. It’s hard to regain. A relationship which looses trust can be shattered into tiny pieces a like shining glass. It’s true that we humans make mistakes and we should except it and forgive. Forgiving doesn’t mean that we lose anything. Even though we are forgiven we should accept our mistakes and we should learn from it. In this world true lovers are rare and hard to find these days.

Even after being together for so long. Even though we could understand each other very well. Even we share our feelings. She/he might not love you or show that his/her love. She/he might think you as a friend. It might be, because that person is confused or she/he might be afraid of telling what’s in their heart. They might be afraid of losing you by telling what in their heart for you. This is something which happens often. Sometimes the feeling of love is hidden or unborn within their souls because the time hasn’t come. For everything there is a time and reason. We should accept it.

Never force someone to love you. Even though you love him/her so deeply. You might lose him/her. We should take it easy and slow. Because the relationships which are built slowly with hard work will last long. We should make him/her realize that there’s someone who cares about him/her in this world. You should show him/her true love. It doesn’t mean to give up everything else and go after that person. To be continued...

Thoughts 2

2009-01-02T22:24:00.003+05:00

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It’s not that I don’t believe in love at first sight. Love at first sight is very rear. This is due to the similarities in the love chemistry. People think when they like someone. Yes! This is what we call love at first sight and this is the right person for me. And never wants to miss the chance. They will hurry and without knowing each other, they will propose. And they will never think for the future. They start to go out for dates. T can say with confidence these relationships’ will never last long. Ninety nine percent of these kinds of relationships will break up for sure. Cause it’s not love its lust or something else.

Cause when they go out. And start to spend time together. They start to know each other. They will realize that this is not the right person for them. Sometimes the way people think will differ. They cannot agree one a simple thing without a fight. They don’t want to live together. Finally they will breakup.

These days’ people like to have relationships just for fun. For show off. They want to be someone famous. To show others that they can get what they want. He or she thinks that they are the greatest. But at the end that person is just a big looser. The person’s life would be cursed by the wishes of others. To be continued...

New Year

2009-01-01T22:56:00.003+05:00

Happy new year my sweet blogger's.

When we talk about new year,it means a fresh start. Three hundred and sixty five days of year 2oo8,had just said goodbye to us welcoming another three hundred and sixty five days just to complete what we were unable to accomplish in the past days. Also make things right. So lets forget about the past which we had suffered or failed. But remember to carry forward what you have gained from it. And hope not to witness a "Deja vu". Lets make our self a new resolution which could give us three hundred and sixty five days of joy and success.

So wipe your tears of yesterday with a new smile of today.And say "Good bye year 2008." May God bring you success in everything beneficial that you do this year. Have a successful and a marvelous year.

Thoughts

2008-12-31T00:50:00.002+05:00

In this small world we use to live. In this world we find things we like, we love, but nothing stays as the same. Not everything ends the way we want, or the way we like. Cause for everything there’s the will of god. For everything and everyone in this world, before it was created its destiny has been written. And no one can change this fact. But it doesn’t mean that we should stop trying to reach the goals of our life. Don’t say that even though we didn’t try everything will happen according to our destiny. It’s the gods will. The truth is everyone has his own power to choose their own way of life. We all are sent her for a reason. It’s to make our life’s and after life’s bright.

When we talk about like and love. In this world many people had misunderstood the true meaning of love and like. Some people think that, when they like someone’s character, they think that as love. Actually it’s not real love. We like to talk and hang out with him or her. But it doesn’t mean its love. To be continued......

I have written a really long one so i have decided to split it. So you guys wont get bored.

Blast from the past 2.

2008-12-30T18:02:00.003+05:00

I will be there.

Whenever you are in dark.
Whenever you don’t know how to start.
Just let me know my part.
Cause helping is something that is always in my heart.
Even though I had to walk for a thousand miles.
I wouldn’t stop even though my leg cries.
To help you, I will show you my smiles.
Insha Allah I will be always there.

Tears

2008-12-27T11:10:00.003+05:00

Why do people cry? We use to cry a lot in our life.The reason for this differs in every occasions. People cry when they are happy or sad.

Recent evidence suggests that lacrimination or crying when we get emotional produces the tears which cleans and lubricate the EYES.

My dear friends please don't keep crying all the time, cause it's beneficial. Your eyes doesn't need over lubrication.

Sharing

2008-12-27T08:33:00.003+05:00

A group of "Baraveli" sharing the meal together.

Early morning while I was walking along the beach I found something really interesting. Something which I love to see in humans. Something which I don't see very often these days.

I saw a group of "Baraveli" on a tail of a dead fish. They all were sharing the flesh on the tail bone. Even though there wasn't much flesh on it, they still shared.

I wonder why these kind of good behaviors we don't see among humans these days. Arnt we the one who should be like this. Sharing what we have. A book, knowledge, talent, feelings, thoughts and many more.

Why do we hasitate to share them. Is it because we are ashamed of sharing them. Or is it simply we just dont want to let others know what we had with us. Is it that we are afraid that others be more succesful than us. Why are we gettin selfish day by day. Arnt we muslims.

Theres nothing to loose if we share. Sharing our knowledge help us to move forward, avoid doing mistakes in our lives and learn more. By sharing we can make the relationship between others more stronger.

So why don't we start sharing. Why let go of something good as sharing. May God bless all you guys.

Blast from the past.

2008-12-26T20:40:00.000+05:00

A random portrait I chose from a magazine.

A portrait of Cindy Crawford.

Another portrait of Cindy Crawford.

A portrait of Amisha Patel.

A random portrait i chose from a magazine.

A random portrait i chose from a magazine.

These are some of the portraits which I made when I was in my seventh grade. This is also one of my hobby which I have lost the touch. I think I should start this once again. I was bored in my room and thought of going through my old collections. I found these and felt like sharing these with you guys. Hope you guys liked it. Have a nice day.

Tsunami(26th December 2004 )

2008-12-26T10:58:00.000+05:00

Today is a day which no one in Maldives, Srilanka, Thailand, India or Indonesia would forget. Today is a day which changed lives of millions of people living in these countries. About more than 225,000 people were killed. Millions of people were injured and many lost their homes and beloved ones.

We could explain this scientifically. But actually this is curse from god. Cause of the sin done by people who don’t obey the rules of God. God send us here for a reason but we have forgotten it and keep enjoying the life of today. Never cares for what is there for them in the afterlife. May Allah bring light to the hearts of sinners.

Here in Maldives, even though the death rate is low compared with other countries affected by it. It changed our lives a lot. Half of the nation’s island was flooded. And some islands were completely washed away. Many were homeless. Some lost their children in front of their eyes. Slipping hands grip or some other ways. May god bless their souls who lost their life.

I am happy to say the Maldivian showed a very good example that day. Everybody worked as a pack. Together we have achieved a lot that day. There’s no one who haven’t participated in helping the people who was affected. Helping doesn’t means only giving money. It also includes give the homeless shelter, food, clothing and also counseling the people who has lost their loved ones.

It’s really sad to say after all these years still there are people who haven’t got a real home to live. People who still live in tsunami camps made out of corrugated sheets, which is really hot from inside. Insha Allah they get a home real soon and give them patience for those who had their loved ones.

Wish that those who sins learn something from these kinds of things which has been happening all over the world today and stop their sins.

While all liveaboards and most resorts in the Maldives remain fully operational, some 17 hotels suffered extensive damage and remain closed for rebuilding...

The wreck of a fishing boat on Vilufushi after the tsunami. Thousands of fishermen have lost their livelihood as well as their homes. A girl at the camp for internally displaced persons on Kolhufushi.
Each tent is occupied by about 15 people.
Some houses were completely fell on ground.Building more permanent structures and toilets for internally displaced persons on Guraidhoo.
A picture taken at Kandholhudhoo. The island was copletely flooded.A family amid the remains of their wrecked home on Guraidhoo.

Together Forever

2008-12-22T00:39:00.000+05:00

Baby still we are together

This is what i want forever

What people think of us doesn't matter.

For me what really matter is laughter.

And it is possible because of you.

In times when i needed someone to wipe my tears

In times when i needed a shoulder.

In times when i needed a warm hug to make me feel that i am loved.

In times when i needed someone to hold my hands to guide me.

You was there beside me.

Even though we had a fight.

We still make things right.

Our relationship is packed tight.

Theres no fear of loosing your hands grip.

I have trusted you.

Insha allah...

I have the guarantee you always speak the truth.

I have the guarantee i can always count on you.

I have the guarantee that we could be together forever.

Sharing Sam

2008-12-20T16:30:00.000+05:00

I am not a fan of reading story books. But this is the only story that I ever had read in my whole life. I am not saying that I haven’t read the stories which we use to read while we are in kinder garten or primary. Hope you guys have understood what I am trying to say here. The thing is that i have read this book more than five times . Every time when i read it brings tears to my eyes. Since that i have become a fan of this. Still i want to read it more, but i don't have the book anymore. Sad.

I would love to share what the story is about, so you guys would understand a bit why i am so into Sharing Sam. Its about two best friend Alison and Isabella. Alison falls for the mysterious Sam Cody, a dark motorcycle rider from school. In the same time frame, she finds out that her very best friend Isabella is dying of brain cancer. Alison is unable to tell her friend about her new love while she's in the throes of her illness, but then Izzy starts liking Sam too.

Knowing that there is nothing more she can do to make her friend's last days happy, Alison asks Sam to become Izzy's boyfriend. Alison is the best friend everyone would want, and Sam is the boyfriend who every girl would dream of. Sam finds that he likes both girls, but it does make Izzy happy while it lasts. He is also dealing with caring for a grandfather with Alzheimer's. Life in this book is anything but easy --- much like real life. once you read it you will also agree with me i guess.

So far away

2008-12-19T23:13:00.000+05:00

Why my eyes can't see you.

Why my arms can't reach you.

Why my ears can't hear you.

Why my mind keep searching for you..

I need to see you beside me.

I need to have you in my arms.

I need to hear your beautiful voice.

I need to see your smile.

I can't do what i want.

I don't want to leave you alone.

I don't want you to be sad.

I don't want to keep you waiting.

I don't want to be like this anymore.

It's really painful for me to stay.

So far away.

Always ur's

2008-12-13T01:33:00.000+05:00

Thou we arn’t in the same land

Thou you are out of my eyes range

Thou the mobiles are out of range

You'll never be out of my heart's range

Thou days pass in ways of complete strange

Thou the people want me to change

My love for you 'll always be the same