Life is cruel. What you have to understand is, life is full of choices. It’s about asking, questioning and even though you cannot understand everything.
Nowadays you cannot understand. Let me ask you, do you really want to see across the line or not...
We always find things we like and things we love, but nothing stays as the same. Everything starts as everything actually ends.
You feel lonely and you will miss him. You think you can’t get over it. But why do we always want to explore… Why do we love things over the other… Just like you liked a song so much, but when you hear something nicer. You will turn to it. You will slowly start to ignore and forget about the old one. Trust me this will happen.
Past is past… It’s like the surf from a boat. Even though you look at it. It finally vanishes…
He’s not the only one… Not the only person who could love you. Understand and believe, everything has it’s time and reason. We just can’t understand it…
Especially when you realize the mistake was yours.
People make mistakes a lot. The reason we are called as humans is that we make mistakes. Nobody is perfect. We might be good at things, but not at all of them. It doesn’t make our self a looser.
We can’t do everything, the perfect way, but we could try. Trying is the way to be.
Sometimes the mistakes we do in our life could affect a lot. So we should be really careful with it. A simple word which comes out from us could change everything. Like a nuclear bomb. The effects could last forever.
The question is, “What if we made a mistake?”…… I know after saying something wrong or doing something, we can’t simply just press Ctrl+Z and undo everything. Like we use to do it in computers. I wish we could…… But it’s not possible.
Everything cannot be changed like it was before. Yes, but we could try to make things right.
The thing is when we realize that we had made a mistake, it will be too late. Most of the time we realize someone wake you up.
It might be cause, when we did what we did. We might think that was the best way to do that. And just simply did it without knowing the consequences.
We should also believe that everyone doesn’t do everything on purpose. There are people who do things on purpose too. If someone did something bad to you and later if she/he realized that she/he did something wrong. And ask for forgiveness.
We should forgive him/her. Even though they couldn’t make things as it was before.
The important this is realizing and accepting the mistake.
There are people who don’t want accept the mistakes done by them. They think that they are always right and perfect. But they are wrong. Cause no one’s perfect.
So dear friends. Try to avoid mistakes as much as you could. Also keep forgiveness as a habit. There’s nothing to lose by forgiving…
Even though friendship is based on these. There are people who pretend to be a friend. I mean some people didn’t understand the true meaning of friendship. Sometimes when we treat or be nice to someone they get the wrong picture out of it. They think we are only nice to them because we want him/her. This is the reason why I say they don’t understand the true meaning of friendship.
Also there are people who take the advantage of friendship. When we are nice to them, they also pretend to be nice. Actually that particular person doesn’t need our friendship. Some people pretend to be a friend, because they want to ruin our life.They always try to create misunderstandment. They will try everything they could do to create it. By taking small things and make an issue out of it.
Choosing a friend. While choosing a friend you should make sure that you choose the right person. Someone trustable and reliable. As people say “We cannot judge a book from its cover.” It’s true.
Never hide your feelings to your friends. If you hide your feelings their won’t be anyone else to guide you away. If he/she is a true friend he/ she will be beside you to help and to comfort you.
Sometimes your friends might yell at you or be mad at you, when u do something wrong. It doesn’t mean that they really don’t care for you. It’s because they love you. It’s their love, which makes them to yell at you when you do something wrong. A true friend never wants his/her friend to do something wrong. Your friend shouts at you because they are your friend. If they wasn’t your friend. They will never be able to get mad at you. So we should accept it even though we cannot understand everything which happens in our life. The life is about asking and questioning.
Always follow your heart. Share your feelings with others. Sharing gives reliefs to every problem. Even though it’s difficult to solve. There’s nothing we cannot do, if we are together. The power of friendship is greatest of all.
These are things which spin in my mind. Someone told me not to keep them by my self. She always told me to let them free. So hope u guys like the way i have decided to let it out. Feel free to share ur thoughts.
