Saturday, January 24, 2009

MIstakes


Why hesitate for being careful.

Is it that you think it’s awful.

Is it that you think you have got a handful…

Or is it you think you are always right.

Are you willing to be in a fight…

Fight for something which isn’t right.

Why don’t accept what is yours.

Asking for forgiveness there’s nothing to lose.

To see your loved ones in pain, it hurts.

Especially when you realize the mistake was yours.




People make mistakes a lot. The reason we are called as humans is that we make mistakes. Nobody is perfect. We might be good at things, but not at all of them. It doesn’t make our self a looser.

We can’t do everything, the perfect way, but we could try. Trying is the way to be.

Sometimes the mistakes we do in our life could affect a lot. So we should be really careful with it. A simple word which comes out from us could change everything. Like a nuclear bomb. The effects could last forever.

The question is, “What if we made a mistake?”…… I know after saying something wrong or doing something, we can’t simply just press Ctrl+Z and undo everything. Like we use to do it in computers. I wish we could…… But it’s not possible.

Everything cannot be changed like it was before. Yes, but we could try to make things right.

The thing is when we realize that we had made a mistake, it will be too late. Most of the time we realize someone wake you up.

It might be cause, when we did what we did. We might think that was the best way to do that. And just simply did it without knowing the consequences.

We should also believe that everyone doesn’t do everything on purpose. There are people who do things on purpose too. If someone did something bad to you and later if she/he realized that she/he did something wrong. And ask for forgiveness.

We should forgive him/her. Even though they couldn’t make things as it was before.

The important this is realizing and accepting the mistake.

There are people who don’t want accept the mistakes done by them. They think that they are always right and perfect. But they are wrong. Cause no one’s perfect.

So dear friends. Try to avoid mistakes as much as you could. Also keep forgiveness as a habit. There’s nothing to lose by forgiving…

May God bless you all…………

12 comments:

swyt butterfly said...

yess u r v true..there's nuthn to lose by forgiving but the thing is the pain that remains in your heart for the rest of your life when a person do a mistake...

this is a kewl post..i like it..

FETAL MIND said...

thank u swyt butterfly...

Naani said...

itz never too late for sayin sorry . . . . it duznt mean ur losing a fight or ur lower than the other person. quite the opposite dho aslu. it makes u a better person :)

FETAL MIND said...

u r right naani. keke.

cutegirl said...

Ur true..nothing will loose by forgiving n asking for it...but it will make the person realize the mistake and help to person to go in right path...but the mistake will always remain in her/his heart...

i like the post...nice:)

SELF!SH G!RL said...

very true.. its better to say sorry then neva to say sorry...

shootingstar said...

Truely said...we are made by mistake of the humankind...Making mistakes is how we learn to live..and we tend to make mistakes..On the whole it's because life is too complex. Almost nothing can be predicted with certainty yet we continually have to make very far reaching decisions. In this chaos we immature people make ,often impulsively , immature choices which become habits that acquire a force of their own.Some people learn from them, some people deny them..
People choose to repeat the mistake because they don't know what to do with the result they did not like.. we never stop learning, ever..but alas fortunately we can learn from them and try not to repeat them.
hope this is not that long...hehe..well actualy i really loved the topic and wrote for this b4 too..dear..its a real cool post..

xeeko said...

may god bless you too :) btw, you've gotta a really big header!

updated!

FETAL MIND said...

@ cutegirl.. thAnx 4 the comment. its better trying 2 4get d paST.

@ selfish girl.. thnx alot. :)

@ SHOOTING STAR.. no its not long. keke. thanx for d wnderful comment. ;)

@ xeeko.. thnx. yea i will fix it...

Nadh said...

mmmh...i'll tel u my theory for this mistake thingys...

u knw...life is wayy too simple fr our too complicated minds to understand:P...we make it and SEE it as complicated...though its very simple...nd then its time we end up doin the mistakes nt even realizin wht we've done...
nd yea..its tru tht no one's perfect and mature enuf...nd i belive tht too, is one reasn y we end up makin mistakes...

nd the ppl who does mistakes nd dnt accept wht they did are the most cowardly immature dummies ever...;)

everyone do mistakes...nd acceptin ur fault...or u ARE at fault is what makes u a good person...

nd here goes the conclusion:P...i kindda lost what i was tryin to say at some point:P...ekm these are sum of the stuff tht came to ma mind when i read thru it...nyways,,,hope i made some sense in this very looong 'speech':P
mwahahha!!...

Hassan Zameer said...

may god bless you...
"WE SAY EVERY ONE'S DIFFERENT,,,BUT.........K MaY BE I AM THE DEPRESSED GUY"

Anonymous said...

As humans we are made to make mistakes. But asking for forgiveness when you make a mistake and having the heart to forgive someone when they make a mistake is how u will be defined.