MIstakes

Why hesitate for being careful.

Is it that you think it’s awful.

Is it that you think you have got a handful…

Or is it you think you are always right.

Are you willing to be in a fight…

Fight for something which isn’t right.

Why don’t accept what is yours.

Asking for forgiveness there’s nothing to lose.

To see your loved ones in pain, it hurts.

Especially when you realize the mistake was yours.

People make mistakes a lot. The reason we are called as humans is that we make mistakes. Nobody is perfect. We might be good at things, but not at all of them. It doesn’t make our self a looser.

We can’t do everything, the perfect way, but we could try. Trying is the way to be.

Sometimes the mistakes we do in our life could affect a lot. So we should be really careful with it. A simple word which comes out from us could change everything. Like a nuclear bomb. The effects could last forever.

The question is, “What if we made a mistake?”…… I know after saying something wrong or doing something, we can’t simply just press Ctrl+Z and undo everything. Like we use to do it in computers. I wish we could…… But it’s not possible.

Everything cannot be changed like it was before. Yes, but we could try to make things right.

The thing is when we realize that we had made a mistake, it will be too late. Most of the time we realize someone wake you up.

It might be cause, when we did what we did. We might think that was the best way to do that. And just simply did it without knowing the consequences.

We should also believe that everyone doesn’t do everything on purpose. There are people who do things on purpose too. If someone did something bad to you and later if she/he realized that she/he did something wrong. And ask for forgiveness.

We should forgive him/her. Even though they couldn’t make things as it was before.

The important this is realizing and accepting the mistake.

There are people who don’t want accept the mistakes done by them. They think that they are always right and perfect. But they are wrong. Cause no one’s perfect.

So dear friends. Try to avoid mistakes as much as you could. Also keep forgiveness as a habit. There’s nothing to lose by forgiving…

May God bless you all…………

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Even though friendship is based on these. There are people who pretend to be a friend. I mean some people didn’t understand the true meaning of friendship. Sometimes when we treat or be nice to someone they get the wrong picture out of it. They think we are only nice to them because we want him/her. This is the reason why I say they don’t understand the true meaning of friendship.

Also there are people who take the advantage of friendship. When we are nice to them, they also pretend to be nice. Actually that particular person doesn’t need our friendship. Some people pretend to be a friend, because they want to ruin our life. They always try to create misunderstandment. They will try everything they could do to create it. By taking small things and make an issue out of it.

Choosing a friend. While choosing a friend you should make sure that you choose the right person. Someone trustable and reliable. As people say “We cannot judge a book from its cover.” It’s true.

Never hide your feelings to your friends. If you hide your feelings their won’t be anyone else to guide you away. If he/she is a true friend he/ she will be beside you to help and to comfort you.

Sometimes your friends might yell at you or be mad at you, when u do something wrong. It doesn’t mean that they really don’t care for you. It’s because they love you. It’s their love, which makes them to yell at you when you do something wrong. A true friend never wants his/her friend to do something wrong. Your friend shouts at you because they are your friend. If they wasn’t your friend. They will never be able to get mad at you. So we should accept it even though we cannot understand everything which happens in our life. The life is about asking and questioning.

Always follow your heart. Share your feelings with others. Sharing gives reliefs to every problem. Even though it’s difficult to solve. There’s nothing we cannot do, if we are together. The power of friendship is greatest of all.

End of thoughts. Hope u guys liked it...

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Sacrifice! In some circumstances we have to make sacrifices for our love. To sacrifice sometimes we have to leave our love. We leave him/her for their own good. Letting go doesn’t mean you don’t love. Letting go means you love that person more. It’s because you always want that person’s happiness.

Sometimes loving someone doesn’t mean to make him/her yours. Everything we that love can’t always be ours. It might be someone else’s. I love being with my friends and I love them. It doesn’t mean that I should make them mine.

We should accept that the others also have their right to choose. They should be given the chance to decide what they want. Also we are not the only people who could love or care. Others also should live their life.

Friendship! When we talk about friendship. It’s also a relationship same as love. It’s built up on trust, sharing and caring. Friends are the most precious gift of all. They are the people who guide us away from the dark. They are the people who give their shoulders for you in happiness and sadness. Whenever you feel like alone you can always rely on true friends. They will always be beside you to help.

A true friend will always be pleased to help you. She/he will never say “No!” if you are doing something right. They will always think of the happiness of both. I say the beauty and the happiness of life is how happy others (Friends) are because of you. Always be someone who others could count on. To be continued...

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Always follow your heart. Think twice before you step forward. Don’t follow others heart. It’s not that others can’t give you good advice. You have to accept it, if your heart does. Don’t do something in the sake of doing it, because someone told you to do so.

Someday you will get your love. If your love is true for that person. Sometimes you might not get. As I told you before everything has a reason for it. We have to accept it. It might be for your or their own good.

Even though you cannot get the one you love. Don’t lose faith. Because you could get someone else. Someone even better than him/her. Some people get bored of life when they lose their loved ones. But we should go on with our life. Never give up. Always try. God is with the people who try.

Some people give advices to make people who had faced these situations. In order to make them relief, to make them happy or it might the way of their belief. They say “Love the person who loves you. Not the person whom you love.” I say this is the biggest mistakes they make in their life.

As I told you before how can we be with someone who we don’t love? Sometimes this might work out after knowing each other. Most of the times it doesn’t. Because love is based on relationship between both sides. Same as if want to give a tension to a rope. And we pull from one end, not from both ends. There want be a tension produced. Tension will be produced if we pull from both ends. So I say being with someone you don’t love is not the solution for your problem. Because you are hurting him/her without knowing. When they find out you don’t actually love, he/she will be badly hurt. I would say “Love the person who loves you and that person should be someone who you love.” To be continued...