Saturday, January 03, 2009

Thoughts 3


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True love. It’s a very special relationship. It’s a relationship built upon trust, sharing and caring. It’s a relationship built when we know each other well. And start to share our feelings. We cannot force anyone to love a person. True love is born in our souls. Bond of true love is hard to break. Bonds of love can only be broken when the bonds of trust is broken. When someone losses trust. It’s hard to regain. A relationship which looses trust can be shattered into tiny pieces a like shining glass. It’s true that we humans make mistakes and we should except it and forgive. Forgiving doesn’t mean that we lose anything. Even though we are forgiven we should accept our mistakes and we should learn from it. In this world true lovers are rare and hard to find these days.

Even after being together for so long. Even though we could understand each other very well. Even we share our feelings. She/he might not love you or show that his/her love. She/he might think you as a friend. It might be, because that person is confused or she/he might be afraid of telling what’s in their heart. They might be afraid of losing you by telling what in their heart for you. This is something which happens often. Sometimes the feeling of love is hidden or unborn within their souls because the time hasn’t come. For everything there is a time and reason. We should accept it.

Never force someone to love you. Even though you love him/her so deeply. You might lose him/her. We should take it easy and slow. Because the relationships which are built slowly with hard work will last long. We should make him/her realize that there’s someone who cares about him/her in this world. You should show him/her true love. It doesn’t mean to give up everything else and go after that person. To be continued...

6 comments:

♥♥āphúя §hāfÿú♥♥ said...

you're right.. you can show the person you love your true feelings.. but the moment you try to force that person to get into a relationship with u, or blackmail, he/she will immediately get annoyed or angry or whatever :/
and yea.. true love/first love, it's something really very special

.:dhiboy:. said...

there are no reson to push someone into a relationship.. when time comes most of the ppl will know n the spark will automatically trigger the flame...

there a saying..
you can easily love someone you trust, but you may not trust some one you love..something like that

R.K.Wawilly said...

wow, thats a touching post...

Now a ppl are forcing others to love them, going behind them, evry where they go and begging and all.... what is this...???? Mostly boys, oooh grls are also counted in... they that that guy or grl annoyed and God know what they do to get here,

True love just comes to U , where ever u r, U don't have to run after it.

andhu said...

love love love love love love ...
its just that creepy word that everyone uses to get some attention give some attention... does anyone really know what it is??? :) why not talk about passion and not love ... because from all the description on love reminds me of passion!!!

Unknown said...

i totally agree wid u.."relationships which are built slowly with hard work will last long"..very true!!^_^..newayx kewl post!!XD

Anonymous said...

I like this post alot. True love is when you can love someone truely, honestly and accepting them with all their flaws knowing all their flaws and not trying to change them. Forgiving when you have to and saying sorry when you have to. Never hiding your true self. And if that person loves you truly they will love u no matter what