Thoughts 4

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Always follow your heart. Think twice before you step forward. Don’t follow others heart. It’s not that others can’t give you good advice. You have to accept it, if your heart does. Don’t do something in the sake of doing it, because someone told you to do so.

Someday you will get your love. If your love is true for that person. Sometimes you might not get. As I told you before everything has a reason for it. We have to accept it. It might be for your or their own good.

Even though you cannot get the one you love. Don’t lose faith. Because you could get someone else. Someone even better than him/her. Some people get bored of life when they lose their loved ones. But we should go on with our life. Never give up. Always try. God is with the people who try.

Some people give advices to make people who had faced these situations. In order to make them relief, to make them happy or it might the way of their belief. They say “Love the person who loves you. Not the person whom you love.” I say this is the biggest mistakes they make in their life.

As I told you before how can we be with someone who we don’t love? Sometimes this might work out after knowing each other. Most of the times it doesn’t. Because love is based on relationship between both sides. Same as if want to give a tension to a rope. And we pull from one end, not from both ends. There want be a tension produced. Tension will be produced if we pull from both ends. So I say being with someone you don’t love is not the solution for your problem. Because you are hurting him/her without knowing. When they find out you don’t actually love, he/she will be badly hurt. I would say “Love the person who loves you and that person should be someone who you love.” To be continued...